Stop Selling Your Story. Start Structuring Your Value.
Over-indexing on your resume or origin story is a common trap, especially in solo or expert-led businesses.
It feels like a strength. But itโs often a commercial weakness.
Hereโs why:
Whatโs the risk of leaning too hard on your resume?
Misaligned with Buyer Priorities
Clients donโt buy your journeyโthey buy the result.
Your experience only matters if it leads directly to their outcome.You Become the Product
When your story is the brand, you limit scale, pricing power, and delegation.
You lock yourself into a time-for-money trap.Credibility Gets Frozen in the Past
Resumes show where youโve beenโnot how youโre solving todayโs problems better than anyone else.It Signals Contractor Thinking, Not Value Creation
Lead with years of experience or logos, and you risk anchoring your value to day ratesโnot outcomes.You Blend In
Everyone has a story. The market is flooded with bios.
Clarity, not chronology, is what cuts through.
So, when is your story useful?
Your backstory can build trust, signal credibility, and spark connection. But only when it's in service of the buyer.
Think of it as a supporting asset, not your lead pitch.
When speaking to clients, only use it:
To build trust โ when your backstory proves you've solved the same challenge theyโre facing
To create relevance โ when it shows you get their world
To spark connection โ when shared vulnerably and briefly, at the right moment
Otherwise, only use your story strategically in these places:
As a credibility boost in your website bio or speaker intro
Passingly in webinars, podcasts, or pitch decksโjust enough to show โIโve been where you areโ
To explain your methodology (โHereโs why I approach it this wayโ)
Wrap-Up: Tell Stories That Serve
Your story matters.
But only when it helps your client see themselves more clearly, trust you more deeply, or believe more confidently that you can solve their problem.
Otherwise, itโs just noise.
Shift the focus:
From โHereโs what Iโve doneโ โ to โHereโs how I help people like you get what you need.โ
Thatโs the story worth telling.
Want to go deeper?
If this topic resonates, here are a few curated resources to explore:
Blair Enns โ Win Without Pitching Manifesto
On replacing credentials with clarity and conviction in positioning.April Dunford โ Obviously Awesome
A masterclass in positioning that shows how to connect your value to what the market cares about.The Commercial Playbook (Module 2)
If you're part of a previous cohort, revisit the ACRE framework to sharpen how you express your expertise and outcomes. If youโre interested in the course, register for information in the landing page.
Your Turn
Whatโs your positioning sentenceโwithout using your CV?
Reply and tell me. Iโll feature a few bold, clear examples in the next issue.
Enjoyed this? Pass it on.
If you found this useful, share it with a fellow expert whoโs still leading with their LinkedIn timeline.
Thank you for being here. Chat soon.
Taural
If weโre not already connected and you'd like to stay in touch beyond the inbox, feel free to reach out on LinkedIn:
โ Connect with me here


